Category Archives: Contemplation

Writing from the heart!

Something in Common…..

Double-crested Cormorant
Double-crested Cormorant

 This image was taken February, 2012 near Eastbank Campground, an Army Corps of Engineer park.

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Neighborly encounter, on the trail

I observe binoculars around her neck

Ah, something in common

 

I am a birder you see

A wonderful hobby, a life long passion

We stop to chat

 

What birds have you seen today, I ask

New to this hobby, so I offer her an excursion

Other locations to search for birds

 

She exclaims

“Yes, maybe one day, perhaps in the fall

We’ll also do some hiking”

 

Now, I see her on the trail

Binoculars around her neck

Head down as she passes

 

How sad for her

She has no time for me

I had a birding mentor

 

She became my friend

Her name was Ann

A kind and gentle soul

 

She taught me well

I treasure those days, with heartfelt appreciation

For they are no more, she is gone now

                                                   ~By Sheila 08/20/2013~

White-breasted Nuthatch
White-breasted Nuthatch

This image was taken, in my yard, last year about this time. I saw a Nuthatch last evening, pecking its way down a Pine to its base to then grab a seed out of a feeder. So much fun to watch.

Happy Birding!

With love and commitment we enter into thirty-ninth year…..

Banyan Tree
Strong Roots

Miracle of life

Children are born and like roots of strong trees our foundations are formed

We live our young lives with love of family teaching us right from wrong

Success is release

A treasured gift given with love to choose our path

 

Support
and Support

Miracle of life

Finding a partner to share your life, how lucky am I to have found mine

Success is balance

His reserve and quite to my emotional and talkative side

His pause to leap, to my hang-on lets go

Fondness of nature
My Love

Miracle of life

Our partnership of respect, love, devotion and individualism

Success is commonality

A sense of adventure and a joy for simplicity

A fondness for finding beauty in nature and a wonder of the universe

Our path together continues
With adventure and simplicity our path continues

 

Wonder
Wonder

 

Miracle of life

Celebrating this day

Success is commitment

On our special day years ago we took our vows to share our lives

With love and commitment we enter into our thirty-ninth year

Entering of 39th year of marriage
Entering of 39th year of marriage with love and commitment

Time Marches On…..

On this day ten years ago, I turned 50.  No big deal! 

Today, I turned 60 and this one seems like a bigger deal!

Why, has sixty been much more emotional for me; another decade gone perhaps?

I will give it more though and see what answers I come up with.

Not complaining, I have enjoyed every single year and hopefully I will continue to enjoy each and every year going forward.

But my gosh – 60!

I keep telling myself:  “Get over it, no big deal.” 

Until I figure this out, I will try to keep my head on straight!

"I'll try to keep my head on straight!" (photo taken on the beach Hobe Sound, FL)
“I’ll try to keep my head on straight!”
(photo taken on the beach Hobe Sound, FL)

Do you have a particular birthday that seemed somewhat upsetting for you?

Triggering a Memory, from Smell or Sound-Last One…..

Hay Bales
Hay Bales

~ Hay ~

Growing up my family always had horses. Mom and Dad had a beautiful Roan colored mare named Lady. Over the years my brother and sister-in-law had several Tennessee Walking horses. I would go with them out to “The Barn” to feed, cleanup, ride and to watch others ride. There was just something calming about hanging out at the horse barn. The smell of hay and other horsey smells triggers  fond memories of being with them and enjoying the love we all shared for these beautiful horses and each other.

~ Sweet Olive Tree ~

I can still picture my Mother-in-law and Father-in-law sitting on their front porch. On the porch sat an old glider and maybe three chairs. You know the kind, metal, old, a little rusty and perhaps with a few loose screws causing the glider and chairs to squeak. 

We would all gather on their porch, usually after a fabulous dinner. Racing to be the first out there, because if you didn’t get a chair or find room on the glider you had to sit on the porch steps. No problem the porch steps were just fine and they didn’t squeak.

Growing next to the porch was a beautiful,  gnarly, Sweet Olive tree. When this tree bloomed its tiny, white flowers the scent was like no other. The heavenly scent of blooming Sweet Olive trees always brings me back in time to their front porch with wonderful memories of  family gatherings. I loved them dearly.

Sea Shells
Sea Shells

~ The Sea ~

My Mom, younger sister and I would go on a summer vacation to the Gulf of Mexico – maybe Mississippi, but most often Florida. The smells along the shore of the Gulf trigger happy memories of laying on the beach, eating a picnic lunch, giggling uncontrollably about nothing, creating sand castles, swimming and just being with Mom and Sis. We would always miss Dad, because he never went with us, more often then not he worked a six day week.  He worked as a carpenter, long hours, hard work. Mom also worked, so having uninterrupted time with her was extremely special.

~ Freshly Cut Grass ~

As a young child growing up in Louisiana, in the early days without air conditioning, my family and I would sleep with our windows open. My Dad would get up early, usually on the weekend and start cutting grass. The heavy southern rains always brought plenty of luscious grass to play on.  

The smell of freshly mowed grass, along with the humming sound of the lawn mower, triggers a very delightful memory of being a child, sleeping late and waking up feeling happy knowing it was Dad’s day off.

To this day when I smell freshly mowed grass or hear the distant sound of a running lawnmower, it conjures up memories of Dad. A happy time indeed.

Smells and sounds,

triggering fond memories,

mysterious why it happens,

but always a welcome experience.

Triggering a Memory, from Smell or Sound-Part Two…..

A Stunning Sunset The Sunset, on this afternoon, was probably the most beautiful sunset I have ever seen!
A Stunning Sunset
The Sunset, on this afternoon, was probably the most beautiful sunset I have ever seen!

If you have read my previous post: Triggering a Memory, from Smell or Sound-Part One, then you know what this post is about.

Sorry, I don’t have any photos of the river, they are  packed away somewhere safe, just like my memories. Maybe, something will trigger the memory as to just where they might be.

 ~ Part Two ~

The Mississippi River

 

Being newly married, Howard and I lived about a block from the Mississippi River in Jefferson, Louisiana. Howard spent his childhood and part of his adult life by this mighty river and often played as a boy along its banks. Sometimes him, his brothers and friends played IN the river, which did not make his Mom and Dad very happy.  To this day, many years later, he still loves the smell of the Mississippi River.

I also came to adore the distinct smell of the river. It is an immensely, pleasant odor and we both often refer to it as a “the sweet smell of the river”. I don’t smell this particular sweet odor often, but when I do fond memories of early marriage, our life together by the Mississippi River and family pops into my mind.

As for playing along the Mississippi, as adults we often walked, jogged and biked up on the river levy, which ran for miles and miles. From a top the levy we always had beautiful views of the River; the River channel full of tug boats pushing their loaded barges; birds flitting along the shore line and among the Willows; to include other abundant wildlife only a river environment offers.

When we rode our bikes, along the River, our toy poodle would ride comfortably and happily along with us, in her basket attached to the handle bars of my bike. A special memory of a precious little girl.

As for hearing sounds that trigger a fond memory, laying awake at night with the sweet odor of the river floating in the air, the river captains would blow their tug boat whistles. A long, steady and mournful sound. A unique, treasured song from long ago, which I greatly miss. For me it equates to love and tranquility.

Odors and sounds triggering fond memories,

mysterious why it happens,

but always a welcome experience.

What fond memories are triggered when you smell a certain odor or hear a certain sound?